I like how you call it a 'substrate' - as I believe trust, in the way of the limitations of metaphor, IS almost a brain chemical. Like our evolution selected for the capacity to trust which enabled us to cooperate. Time and time again, trust gets broken, and these injuries can really interrupt the capacity to cooperate. The most telling quote recently from a politician who gets too much attention and seems not to care if it's positive was him telling a BBC reporter 'you know I really don't trust that many people' --- ya think we didn't see that?...but I absolutely am down for seeing if commitment pools can be like bioswales in a permaculture of human relationships. Each function supported by many elements, every element having many functions.
I'm really appreciating this perspective, highlighting the relevance of personal history / psychology / trauma to the social patterns we notice around us. Both the patterns that keep us stuck, and the patterns that heal and free us. As and when I can contribute something of particular value, I would like to. My sense is around the individuality of these healing journeys, and how they can be held in a larger, collective, container, where each one of us can move at our own pace in our own healing journey, and at the same time participate in and build up the collective capacity for whatever healing is needed to enable restorative and regenerative action.
Similar to the well-established idea of "good enough" parenting, I'm looking for us all being "healed enough" to work together for the good of life and our planet.
My book Inner Work: Resolving Emotional Triggers introduces two techniques people can use for themselves to resolve their emotional triggers. They can readily be introduced to others.
One, EFT, you may already be aware of. The other is a visualization process for meeting problematic parts of ourselves.
I am with Stable Planet Alliance. We are very small at present. But our intention, with others (it will take a multitude of us) is mobilize public will to evolve a compassionate ecologically sustainable world.
If you think there’s something here with giving some of your time and attention to, etc. a Zoom conversation to get acquainted and consider possibilities.
Thanks for reaching out, Andrew. I appreciate the care and clarity of your framework. In my work, we’re also exploring trust-based protocols for healing and reciprocity ... often in hyper-local contexts ... where transformation is less about message delivery and more about honoring relationship over time. I’d be happy to have a gentle conversation sometime about how these approaches might weave or differ, and where integrity lives in that crossing. Warmly.
"Spoiler alert: In these stories, the hero cannot defeat the villain. They must recognize the wound … as one they also carry … and grow a space where trust can take root again."
I am coming to understand it is not your technology but your storytelling animates these projects into living ecosystems.
Thank you! that means a lot. I’m coming to see that this language of trust and repair wants to express itself across many media ... code, stories, rituals, relationships. Each carries part of the pattern, and together they let the deeper logic of care come alive.
I like how you call it a 'substrate' - as I believe trust, in the way of the limitations of metaphor, IS almost a brain chemical. Like our evolution selected for the capacity to trust which enabled us to cooperate. Time and time again, trust gets broken, and these injuries can really interrupt the capacity to cooperate. The most telling quote recently from a politician who gets too much attention and seems not to care if it's positive was him telling a BBC reporter 'you know I really don't trust that many people' --- ya think we didn't see that?...but I absolutely am down for seeing if commitment pools can be like bioswales in a permaculture of human relationships. Each function supported by many elements, every element having many functions.
I'm really appreciating this perspective, highlighting the relevance of personal history / psychology / trauma to the social patterns we notice around us. Both the patterns that keep us stuck, and the patterns that heal and free us. As and when I can contribute something of particular value, I would like to. My sense is around the individuality of these healing journeys, and how they can be held in a larger, collective, container, where each one of us can move at our own pace in our own healing journey, and at the same time participate in and build up the collective capacity for whatever healing is needed to enable restorative and regenerative action.
Similar to the well-established idea of "good enough" parenting, I'm looking for us all being "healed enough" to work together for the good of life and our planet.
My book Inner Work: Resolving Emotional Triggers introduces two techniques people can use for themselves to resolve their emotional triggers. They can readily be introduced to others.
One, EFT, you may already be aware of. The other is a visualization process for meeting problematic parts of ourselves.
I am with Stable Planet Alliance. We are very small at present. But our intention, with others (it will take a multitude of us) is mobilize public will to evolve a compassionate ecologically sustainable world.
Relevant articles include:
• How we can align to create a viable society
https://medium.com/@andrewgaines/how-we-can-align-to-create-a-viable-society-d534bd013189
• Becoming an Evolutionary Catalyst
https://medium.com/@andrewgaines/becoming-an-evolutionary-communicator-and-an-evolutionary-catalyst-030a57ab5222
If you think there’s something here with giving some of your time and attention to, etc. a Zoom conversation to get acquainted and consider possibilities.
Warmly,
Andrew
Andrew Gaines
Andrew.Gaines@stableplanetalliance.org
Thanks for reaching out, Andrew. I appreciate the care and clarity of your framework. In my work, we’re also exploring trust-based protocols for healing and reciprocity ... often in hyper-local contexts ... where transformation is less about message delivery and more about honoring relationship over time. I’d be happy to have a gentle conversation sometime about how these approaches might weave or differ, and where integrity lives in that crossing. Warmly.
Thanks Will. Yes, I see that your work is local. Over time, global connections will become increasingly important. Good to build them now!
That noted, my focus is on building a movement of Evolutionary Catalysts to mobilize public will to transform our destructive system.
Smiles,
Andrew
Beautifully told story and invitation.
"Spoiler alert: In these stories, the hero cannot defeat the villain. They must recognize the wound … as one they also carry … and grow a space where trust can take root again."
I am coming to understand it is not your technology but your storytelling animates these projects into living ecosystems.
🙏🏼😉
Thank you! that means a lot. I’m coming to see that this language of trust and repair wants to express itself across many media ... code, stories, rituals, relationships. Each carries part of the pattern, and together they let the deeper logic of care come alive.